The limits in your child adolescence
To
get proper education of children is necessary to establish rules and
limits from birth, which will be modified and flexible over the years and the
growth of the child.
The
main objective of the limits is to ensure the safety and health of the child,
but also aim to stabilize and provide a certain order and structure in the
daily dynamics and to bring a sense of life consistent. Moreover, the limits
help in building the personality of the child or adolescent, as they
involve the development of aspects such as the will, tolerance for frustration,
the postponement of satisfaction, taking into account the rights of others,
etc.
Since
the start to set limits is normal for the child, in turn, try to
obstruct them. This inherent conflict appears natural and evolutionary process.
Over the years, and more especially in adolescence, is normal also increased
questioning of the rules and limits by the boy. The adolescent needs to
question the model proposed by their parents and that is part of their
development and the progressive development of their personality.